Desire fog is real, and we don’t talk about it enough.

So, what do you want?

I still remember Josh's pained and slightly embarrassed look as he considered the question and said, “I don’t know what I want, and I have no idea how to figure it out.”

Desire fog is the experience of feeling confused or stuck with your own desires. It shows up as an inability to articulate what you want or pursue your desires in a way that feels liberating and true to who you are.

In society, we praise people who “go big or go home.” And we simultaneously praise people who put everyone else’s needs and wants above their own. Internally, many of us haven’t been taught how to interact with our own desires with much depth or nuance.

It’s no wonder that desires can feel so tricky.

And yet we don’t talk about it very much. So many people tell me that they feel guilty, ashamed, or like it’s some kind of personal failure if this part of their lives feels tough.

We have to talk about this more. Why? Because not only does this create a lot of frustration and stress in our lives individually I also believe that collectively we miss out. The author, philosopher, theologian, civil rights leader, and mystic said a famous quote you’ve probably heard but is worth repeating.

I love this quote so much, and I would add that a deep, honest look at your desires is integral to the process of coming alive. I am passionate about creating more space to talk about this part of our lives and the pathway that I have seen create meaningful, authentic alignment on your unique journey of becoming who you were made to be. I believe the world is a better place when we all show up as our full selves.

The Authentic Alignment pathway is based on learning from working with hundreds of people as a coach and teacher. I’m offering this group coaching experience to create a collective space to keep talking about and working on creating a generative relationship with our deepest desires. It combines teaching, coaching, resources, and a fun, supportive community.

Going from desire fog to deeply aligned becomes simple and doable when you have the right tools.

Membership Includes:

• Access to lessons for each stage
  20-minute lessons that are tailored to each stage of the process blend principles and practices and are designed to teach you the skills, process, and framework in a way that will be meaningful for you
  Think of a how-to guide that draws on bigger-picture themes and principles, making it personal and actionable.

• Self-Reflection Guide and Workbook
  The specific exercises I have developed help uncover the specific gift of each stage
  You’ve never had homework this fun.

• Live Group Coaching Calls
  Live, exclusive Zooms will be a chance to dive into Q&A, ask me any questions, and get my focused support, as well as learn from other amazing humans who are in the same process.
  You don’t have to do this alone.

• Online Community Space
  To support your learning and be able to ask questions or interact outside of coaching calls, you’ll have access to an online community space that will let you ask a question, share wins, and be inspired.
  It’s a third space (places that aren’t home or work) but for your desires.

This might be for you if:

• You are in a season of transition and are struggling to figure out what the next chapter of your life is supposed to be about.

• You feel dissatisfied with desire fog in your life and long for clarity.

• You would love some simple, meaningful, and proven ways to start working on this area of your life.

• You have questions and observations but want some tools to interpret those things.

• You would love to be a part of a wonderful group of humans who are also asking the same kind of questions you are.

• Having an ongoing commitment and accountability to your journey would be helpful.

• You would be helped by a group coaching experience and enjoy learning from teaching and shared learning in a community.

• You sense that the old ways of dealing with these kinds of questions are kind of tired, and you’re looking for something fresh.

This might not be for you if:

• You don’t sense that this is the right time to address this part of your life which is important and valid.

• You are not able to put time and effort into your process. I believe in making things bite-size and doable, but it won’t work well if you can’t create some space and action steps. I estimate about 2 hours per month as a base level. That will give you enough time to do the lesson and the personal reflection homework and engage with the group call, either live or recorded. You can also do more or go faster (binge the pathway, I guess? Haha), but that’s up to you.

• You’re looking for more highly contextualized 1:1 coaching support or scheduling flexibility according to your calendar.

Timeline

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